Dating and the Theory of Scarcity

Dating

 

In my town, it’s not for the weak at heart—or is this just a belief? If you look at the numbers, the reality of most cities in FL is that there are many more single men to single women  in certain age groups–it is true.  I do know that it makes for some degree of difficulty when one is trying to find an actual partner in life, not just for a night. But what is the alternative? So I choose to live without anxiety about it.

Scarcity is a complicated  concept when it comes to people. Scarcity can be limited to a particular type of person or even a geographical area. The truth is, it is a concept that has some very limiting beliefs attached to it. I find by letting go of the belief that love is scarce, I feel better and it seems to flow toward me. When I begin to get anxious about not finding it, I feel as though I am chasing shadows. So I decide not to chase shadows because that is an unproductive use of energy. I let go of the limiting belief that there is not enough, and even when someone wants to remind me of the numbers — I move forward without worry. Abraham Hicks reminds us: “There is enough.”

If you are struggling, or worried about not having enough of something, consider seeing your life without that belief tomorrow. Take it as a challenge–see what happens.