Parenting a teen is no easy task. Now and then I can offer some insight though so here goes:
If you are struggling with how to begin, well, you just have to dive in! And if you have not been doing the job you would like to see yourself do, then commit to the commitment and begin now! If you simply cannot bring yourself to feeling that awkward for whatever reason, start by just saying a few words today. Then just sit nearby and see what happens. I believe you might begin to sense some imperceptible shift in your child’s attitude very soon. Enjoy these moments–even the awkward ones. And tomorrow, when you try it again, it may feel a bit less unnatural. Look at your teenager today. Really look. Time is flying by so don’t delay.
Keep in mind that you are setting up your adult relationship –When they really do still need you although in a different way—so don’t wait for the perfect moment. We are all imperfect. Model that!